Family Blog

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It’s always nice to know you’re not alone.  It feels good to know that others understand.  Here at the Family Blog, we will share experiences of other families who are walking your same path.  The good times, and maybe the not so good times.  All that the FASD journey has to bring.  Things that only you can relate to.  You’ll nod as you read.  And you will know that you are not alone.

If you would like to write for the Family Blog and share your story, please contact Emily@mofas.org.

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Common people attaining uncommon results

Posted by Carolyn On February 20, 2012

Andrew Carnegie once said “Team work is the ability to work together toward a common vision. The ability to direct individual accomplishments toward organizational objectives. It is the fuel that allows common people to attain uncommon results.” I consider myself one of the “common” people. I’m not known for doing great things and that’s okay. [...]

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Legal Aspects of FASD

Posted by Carolyn On February 15, 2012

In January I had the opportunity to attend The Legal Aspects of FASD, sponsored in part by MOFAS. Judge Anthony Wartnik, a legal expert for FASDexperts.com, was the presenter. The conference was quite informative and of particular interest for myself, having been through the legal system a number of different times with our daughter and [...]

The Comfort of Reading an Accurate Portrayal of Our Lives

Posted by Nancy Beyer On February 14, 2012

I recently had the privilege of reading an article published in the Journal of the Center for Families, Children and the Courts. The thorough, real life explanation of the daily challenges of FASD for the victim, the professionals, the family, the courts and the community was incredible. Seldom, if ever, have I read such a well researched piece that [...]

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FASD vs. ASD

Posted by Tanya On February 13, 2012

Has your child with an FASD ever been diagnosed with an Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) or been in an ASD program in school? Mine has! When Alex was four they gave him a diagnosis of PDD- NOS (Pervasive Developmental Disorder- Not Otherwise Specified).  PDD-NOS is under the Autism Spectrum umbrella. It didn’t feel right to [...]

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Fantasy vs. Reality Part 2 – SuperHero Parents

Posted by Lisa On February 2, 2012

Here is another list of the differences between what we may expect a typical child would do and the second half of each phrase lists the reality of what to expect living with our affected children. Child is able to pour liquid into cup without spilling; Child spills everything, everywhere, almost all the time. Child [...]

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How the Little Voice Became a Roar

Posted by Carolyn On February 2, 2012

Ever thought, “I’m only one person, what difference can one little voice make?” When it comes to changing our system, every little voice makes a difference. I used to think that speaking up couldn’t possibly change anything, until I tried it. Guess what? People listened and things began to change. Respite funding was designated in [...]

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Fantasy Versus Reality

Posted by Lisa On January 31, 2012

I’m sure all parents have a vision of what life will be like when they dream of having children. You know, the perfect child. We envision Norman Rockwell moments of sharing our life with that little cherub and how wonderful things will be. That’s the fantasy, then there is the reality. Raising children with Special [...]

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Brain Deteriorates with Age – It’s a Toaster

Posted by Lisa On January 30, 2012

So, cognitive function of the brain starts to deteriorate at age 45. That’s the new research. Memory, reasoning, and comprehension skills are all affected. Well, I’m over 45 but I think my brain started deteriorating when I added children into my life. I mean if you have just yourself to keep track of, how hard [...]